Our Nativity Story

I have been searching for the perfect nativity for a couple of years now.  I wanted something timeless yet matched the look of our home.  Apparently there are not a lot of shabby chic inspired nativities out there!  It felt weird to not acknowledge the nativity in our home the last few years but I wanted to hold out for the perfect one.  It was a goal that I wanted to achieve at least by the time we had kids.  So we had a little time to be patient in looking.

On a recent trip to visit Brent's grandparents, I stumbled upon this beautiful white nativity at this cute small town restaurant/gift shop.  I immediately turned to Brent and said, "I think this is the one."  I was so nervous.  I didn't know if I should commit.   I even sent my mom a photo to get her opinion.  After agonizing over whether or not I was making the right decision, Brent's grandmother settled my debate within myself by offering to buy it for me as a gift. 

And I love it so much.

I have wonderful grandparents but due to distance and family circumstances I rarely get to spend a lot of time with them and was not raised in a family with a lot of things to pass down through generations.  Not only did I find the perfect nativity but the fact that it was given to me by Brent's grandmother who, in such a short time, I have been able to get to know, spend time with, and the blessing of considering her my own grandmother, means so much more.

Our nativity has a story.  A story of family, a story of me and my overly particular seasonal home decor, and the story of Jesus.  All things I want to be a part of my story to future generations.

And in case that wasn't enough, though I do not have my own children in the home, I do have a little one around who I get to be a big part of his story as well.  

After setting up the nativity, I had the joy of explaining to my nephew what the nativity was as well as giving him his own little nativity to play with.  Seeing his little mind and heart process it was a very special moment for me.

He just rested his head on his hand and looked at it.  The awe of a child was just the reminder I needed to slow down and notice.

And even when my nephew has gone home, I still see little trails of evidence that he was there.  He has his own place to put his baby Jesus, mommy, and daddy but everyday somehow they end up right back with "Aunt Ashley's baby Jesus."  Somehow he understands that they belong together.


  1. I love this!!! I got my Grandparent's nativity set passed to me, like the one I used to play with when I was little. Then I have received one from my parents, piece by piece, over the years.

    Nativities are so special and your new one is gorgeous! What a great story too.

  2. Your nativity is lovely! And the pics of your nephew looking at it are so awesome! Great reminder to slow down and gaze at the scene and remember what it is all about!

  3. I'm the same, waiting for the right one, it's been seven years and I haven't found it yet! I love, love yours and such a wonderful story that goes with it!

  4. How precious! Last year I picked up a nativity scene for the kids, it has a little poem that goes with each of its seven pieces. It is a great way to get the whole family focused on the the reason we celebrate Christmas. It is the first piece of decor we put up this year. I am still looking for the perfect heirloom style nativity set though.

  5. What an amazing picture of him just sitting there looking at it, that warms my heart. <3

  6. Oh my goodness, that is so precious it brought tears to my eyes. The true meaning of Christmas right there. <3 Thank you for sharing!

  7. I love it Ashley! It is the perfect set fo sure...and made so much more special by being give as a gift! I have a small all white nativity set that belong to my Grandmother and I remember it well as a child being set up in her house on the top of her big tv-in-a-cabinet in the living room! Your nephew is so sweet and he is getting so big! Angie xo

  8. I love the uniqueness of nativities, and love watching children (even though they are not officially mine yet) play with them. Precious. Faith like a little child is so dear.

  9. Ashley I've been meaning to come back and leave a comment on this post. It's beautiful. I love the story about Grandma and the fact that she gave this to you, and I adore the photos of your nephew with the nativity set. And did I mention how much I love the set itself? It goes perfectly with your decor.
    Leslie (aka Gwen Moss)

  10. I love this post! i am too looking for the perfect nativity set. I didn;t even think of going to thrift stores. Thanks for the great tip! Merry Christmas!


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